January 11, 2012

PAPA don't PREACH! Gay marriage is not a threat to humanity's future.

Once again, the infallible pope gave a statement against Homosexuality. The real threat to humanity is the removal of basic human rights and that is the right to love.  I'm a believer of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs in which a person will not get into self actualization or the completeness of being if he cannot get all his needs.  Please see the diagram below:




Let's say for example, a member of the LGBT community is deprived of his needs, he would not have self-esteem and be self-actualized. He would not function as an individual, or worst, as a citizen of his country. This will lead to discomfort and anxiety which will eventually be an emotional burden to that person. The church pays attention to its moral standards and do not look at the wholeness of an individual:  Psychologically, Physically, and Spiritually. 


Having said that homosexual acts are sinful, it lays a foundation of fear that what an LGBT person's actions are against the will of God and will punish him, (on the other hand, the Pope said that pedophilia is normalwhen in our current society, even Psychologist would say that pedophilia is not a normal behavior). This causes confusion when it comes to what it right and what is wrong because the church is being bias to its teachings (the CBCP even accepted luxury vehicles even if they were teaching that corruption is wrong). 


According to the Pope, the family unit is fundamental for the educational process and for the development both of individuals and states; hence there is a need for policies which promote the family and aid social cohesion and dialogue. Now, who defines what a family is? The church? That a family should have a father and a mother, and children?  A family should be a principal institution bonded by love  nourishing each other with acceptance and affection. A family headed by homosexual couples can indeed be as good, or even better, as a heterosexual family if and only if there is no social and cultural stereotyping and stigma caused by the moral standards set by the catholic church and the patriarchal society.


Homosexual behavior is normal. No argument should be laid on the table because it is no longer associated to any psychological disorder or any illness, unlike prior belief since prehistoric time and the reign of patriarchy.  When it all comes down to it, the problem lies with the acceptance of the catholic church to what is considered normal in this age of advancement in human rights regardless of sexual orientation and gender identity. The church should lay their hands OFF any state policies because it kept on being a hindrance to our development as a nation, now that is a bigger threat to humanity. 






Source: 
http://ph.news.yahoo.com/gay-marriage-threat-humanitys-future-pope-200603840.html


Gay marriage a threat to humanity's future - PopeVATICAN CITY (Reuters) - Pope Benedict said on Monday that gay marriage was one of several threats to the traditional family that undermined "the future of humanity itself".
The pope made some of his strongest comments against gay marriage in a new year address to the diplomatic corps accredited to the Vatican in which he touched on some economic and social issues facing the world today.
He told diplomats from nearly 180 countries that the education of children needed proper "settings" and that "pride of place goes to the family, based on the marriage of a man and a woman."
"This is not a simple social convention, but rather the fundamental cell of every society. Consequently, policies which undermine the family threaten human dignity and the future of humanity itself," he said.
The Vatican and Catholic officials around the world have protested against moves to legalise gay marriage in Europe and other developed parts of the world.
One leading opponent of gay marriage in the United States is New York Archbishop Timothy Dolan, whom the pope will elevate to cardinal next month.
Dolan fought against gay marriage before it became legal in New York state last June, and in September he sent a letter to President Barack Obama criticising his administration's decision not to support a federal ban on gay marriage.
In that letter Dolan, who holds the powerful post of president of the U.S. Bishops Conference, said such a policy could "precipitate a national conflict between church and state of enormous proportions."
The Roman Catholic Church, which has some 1.3 billion members worldwide, teaches that while homosexual tendencies are not sinful, homosexual acts are, and that children should grow up in a traditional family with a mother and a father.
"The family unit is fundamental for the educational process and for the development both of individuals and states; hence there is a need for policies which promote the family and aid social cohesion and dialogue," Benedict told the diplomats.
Gay marriage is legal in a number of European countries, including Spain and the Netherlands.
Some Churches that have allowed gay marriage, women priests, gay clergy and gay bishops have been losing members to Catholicism, and the Vatican has taken steps to facilitate their conversion.
In 2009, Benedict decreed that Anglicans who leave their Church, many because they feel it has become too liberal, can find a home in Catholicism in a parallel hierarchy that allows them to keep some of their traditions.
The Vatican has since set up "ordinariates," structures similar to dioceses, in Britain and the United States to oversee ex-Anglicans who have converted and be a point of contact for those wishing to do so.
(Reporting By Philip Pullella; editing by Tim Pearce)

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